{"id":778,"date":"2008-03-20T19:41:28","date_gmt":"2008-03-21T00:41:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/03\/20\/ebenezer-the-denouement\/"},"modified":"2013-04-12T14:34:20","modified_gmt":"2013-04-12T14:34:20","slug":"ebenezer-the-denouement","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/03\/20\/ebenezer-the-denouement\/","title":{"rendered":"Ebenezer &#8212; The D\u00e9nouement"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote>\n<p class=\"lyrics\">In Christ alone my hope is found;<br \/>\nHe is my light, my strength, my song;<br \/>\nThis cornerstone, this solid ground,<br \/>\nFirm through the fiercest drought and storm.<br \/>\nWhat heights of love, what depths of peace,<br \/>\nWhen fears are stilled, when strivings cease!<br \/>\nMy comforter, my all in all\u2014<br \/>\nHere in the love of Christ I stand.<\/p>\n<p class=\"lyrics\">In Christ alone, Who took on flesh,<br \/>\nFullness of God in helpless babe!<br \/>\nThis gift of love and righteousness,<br \/>\nScorned by the ones He came to save.<br \/>\nTill on that cross as Jesus died,<br \/>\nThe wrath of God was satisfied;<br \/>\nFor ev&#8217;ry sin on Him was laid\u2014<br \/>\nHere in the death of Christ I live.<\/p>\n<p class=\"lyrics\">There in the ground His body lay,<br \/>\nLight of the world by darkness slain;<br \/>\nThen bursting forth in glorious day,<br \/>\nUp from the grave He rose again!<br \/>\nAnd as He stands in victory,<br \/>\nSin&#8217;s curse has lost its grip on me;<br \/>\nFor I am His and He is mine\u2014<br \/>\nBought with the precious blood of Christ.<\/p>\n<p class=\"lyrics\">No guilt in life, no fear in death\u2014<br \/>\nThis is the pow&#8217;r of Christ in me;<br \/>\nFrom life&#8217;s first cry to final breath,<br \/>\nJesus commands my destiny.<br \/>\nNo pow&#8217;r of hell, no scheme of man,<br \/>\nCan ever pluck me from His hand;<br \/>\nTill He returns or calls me home\u2014<br \/>\nHere in the pow&#8217;r of Christ I&#8217;ll stand.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Gavin&#8217;s been having a rough time lately. I think he&#8217;s teething all this incisors and molars at once. He&#8217;s crabby. He wakes up at 5:00 am every morning. He whines a LOT. His nose runs. He&#8217;s kinda klutzy. He eats two breakfasts every morning.<\/p>\n<p>And well, he reminds me of <em>me<\/em>. This is a hard time for him. He feels lousy and he&#8217;s learning and growing so much. It&#8217;s exhausting. And sometimes Daddy has to just take over (because he&#8217;s stronger) and hold him tight and say, &#8220;Gavin. Stop. Rest.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>God did that with us over the last year. He held us through our developmental disequilibrium. We might have bellowed, &#8220;NO!!!&#8221; but He just picked us up and firmly carried us through. No power of hell, no scheme of man &#8212; not even my own short-sightedness, foolishness, and total inability &#8212; can ever pluck me from His hand.<\/p>\n<p>And now that it&#8217;s all over, we can assure you that there <em>is <\/em>life after fundamentalism. That sphere of influence is really very, very small, and we continue to chuckle that Christ is way bigger than a single city block!<\/p>\n<p>At each step, God was there. Each monument reminds me that &#8220;the Lord has helped us thus far.&#8221; <a title=\"Elise's Birth Story\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2001\/07\/09\/elises-birth-story\/\" target=\"_blank\">Our daughter&#8217;s death<\/a> stripped away cultural clich\u00e9s and showed me my Christian colleagues at their very best and God at His most loving. <a title=\"Ebenezer 1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/02\/12\/here-i-raise-my-ebenezer-1\/\" target=\"_blank\">Praying for my oldest<\/a> proved that God listens and answers prayer. <a title=\"Ebenezer 2.0\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/02\/14\/ebenezer-20\/\" target=\"_blank\">His birth and babymoon<\/a> taught me how much God loves me. <a title=\"A Threepeat\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/02\/18\/ebenezer-a-threepeat\/\" target=\"_blank\">Finding our parenting &#8220;sea legs&#8221;<\/a> (despite <a title=\"The Ezz and I\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/02\/16\/the-ezz-and-i-ebenezer-21\/\" target=\"_blank\">what I had foolishly concluded as a grad student<\/a>) further reminded me to listen close to the Holy Spirit and to see <a title=\"Snacking on Auggie's Pears\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2007\/04\/23\/snacking-on-auggies-pears\/\" target=\"_blank\">through my sons my own total inability and dependence on Christ<\/a>. <a title=\"Reading is Fundamental\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/02\/22\/another-ebenezer-reading-is-fundamental\/\" target=\"_blank\">Our reading<\/a> showed us a more robust and more biblical Christianity than we knew in our microculture. <a title=\"A Second Chance\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/02\/24\/ebenezer-a-second-chance\/\" target=\"_blank\">Publishing my dissertation<\/a> was also a thrilling and unexpected (though scary) answer to prayer. <a title=\"A Gavin is Born!\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/02\/26\/ebenezer-2006-a-gavin-is-born\/\" target=\"_blank\">Gavin&#8217;s birth<\/a> reminded us that God is faithful so that we can be happy and bold in His love as we approach His throne saying &#8220;Abba Father!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Then there are the monuments built with sharp, heavy stones. The outings, <a title=\"Our First Outing\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/02\/20\/ebenezer-vista-outing-my-parenting\/\" target=\"_blank\">little<\/a> and <a title=\"The Big Outing\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/02\/28\/ebenezer-vista-the-big-outing\/\" target=\"_blank\">big<\/a>. The <a title=\"The Meeting\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/03\/02\/ebenezer-the-meeting\/\" target=\"_blank\">meetings<\/a>. The <a title=\"The Chapter\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/03\/06\/ebenezer-the-chapter\/\" target=\"_blank\">chapter<\/a>. The <a title=\"The Document\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/03\/09\/ebenezer-the-document\/\" target=\"_blank\">document<\/a>. The <a title=\"The Ultimatum\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/03\/13\/ebenezer-the-ultimatum\/\" target=\"_blank\">ultimatum<\/a>. And the <a title=\"The Resignation\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/03\/16\/ebenezer-the-resignation\/\" target=\"_blank\">resignation<\/a>. Each incident revealed brokenness of corporate policy, an occluded climate of communication, and a culture steeped in graceless punishment that seems as likely to continue as it ever has. As frightening as these boulder-like Ebenezers were, each was a firm hug that pulled us closer to God and pushed us further along in His plan.<\/p>\n<p>But it&#8217;s not really about Grant and me or even a small segment of fundamentalism. It&#8217;s about the Church at large and a brewing Awakening, I believe. I&#8217;ve heard from so many fellow alumni and friends whom God has gently but dramatically led out of the movement. <a title=\"Jerry Bridges\" href=\"http:\/\/www.modernreformation.org\/default.php?page=articledisplay&amp;var1=ArtRead&amp;var2=270&amp;var3=authorbio&amp;var4=AutRes&amp;var5=42\" target=\"_blank\">Jerry Bridges<\/a>&#8216; recent theological transformation mirrors ours. And <a title=\"Christless Christianity\" href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/share_redirect.php?h=7bbe8f031cb0fc141f3ef5252ac49bd2&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.modernreformation.org%2Fdefault.php%3Fpage%3Darticledisplay%26var1%3DArtRead%26var2%3D1%26var3%3Dmain%26var4%3DHome&amp;sid=8286619567\" target=\"_blank\">Michael Horton<\/a>, too, urges a move from the Christless religion of distracting rules to a Christ-centered discipleship that lives out the Gospel. It&#8217;s happening.<\/p>\n<p>Writing these Ebenezers have been a therapeutic Lenten exercise for me. I feel unburdened and relieved. The message that has been stuck in my gullet for years is out. It&#8217;s done. No need to save it to a CD-ROM either. \ud83d\ude09 I&#8217;m not moving it.<\/p>\n<p>If I were to describe this argument within the theory I built in <a title=\"Romancing the Difference\" href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Romancing-Difference-University-Religious-Fundamentalism\/dp\/1602580030\/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1204297000&amp;sr=8-1\" target=\"_blank\">my book<\/a> &#8212; the notion of a romantic separatist rhetoric &#8212; I&#8217;d probably say that I was the friend that dared to talk about the debutante&#8217;s beauty treatments. The henna rinses, the tummy tucks, the tattooed eyeliner &#8212; things that were not natural but were desperate attempts to prop up a fading beauty.<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"tt-flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/12037699@N03\/2306532396\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/farm3.static.flickr.com\/2296\/2306532396_6b4a75db35.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"BookCover\" width=\"340\" height=\"500\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Take the cover art, for instance. It&#8217;s <a title=\"Edwin Long\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Edwin_Long\" target=\"_blank\">Edwin Long<\/a>&#8216;s Vashti. I know that after Campaign 2000, Bob Jones University felt very much like Vashti did when the King wanted her to traipse before his drunken guests. While her ladies-in-waiting are pleading with her to just buck up and go out there and do her duty, she pulls her shawl tight to her chest and trembles. But <em>she won&#8217;t budge<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Vashti was stuck. It was either strip or hide, she thought, and she chose hide. We know that <em>neither<\/em> was the best option. The best option came from a plucky but God-fearing gate guard and his cousin, an unlikely Jewess princess who saw God in every interaction. With boldness, Esther defied convention and propriety and spoke plainly. She stood up to injustice. When the courtly customs threatened her life if she didn&#8217;t hush, she dared to speak.<\/p>\n<p>Although I was stopped at every turn, what I <em>wanted<\/em> to say to fundamentalists in my book is that their beauty isn&#8217;t in them at all or in their products or productions. Their spiritual success isn&#8217;t stuck between their own purity and the world&#8217;s debauchery. As believers, our beauty is wholly in Christ. And that&#8217;s not just a clich\u00e9; I&#8217;m trying to describe it in the most unclich\u00e9d way I know how. It seems to me that everything the Lord has brought my family through &#8212; from our time at Indiana University to the birth of our children to our forced resignations from Bob Jones University &#8212; has pushed us to saying that very thing. Our whole story proves that God (not us!) can take the ugliest and saddest things and make them beautiful and joyful.<\/p>\n<p>You talk to anyone who has left fundamentalism &#8212; and many of you have written me and called me to share your similar experiences &#8212; and the transition is very much the same. It&#8217;s tough. You lose most of your friends from your previous life. You know that people are concluding the worst about you (and a few are brazen enough to tell you how thoroughly terrible you are). People pass unproven supposition around as fact. You hear about how everything you touched is treated like evidence in a &#8220;crime scene.&#8221; You get paranoid. You get official letters describing the ongoing punishment that your once-friends are now documenting in their files. And your precious family gets the brunt of the stress those letters cause. You feel the icy chill from those you used to laugh with and cry with and pray with.<\/p>\n<p>And then, after all <em>that<\/em>, you&#8217;re told to <a title=\"Shut up!\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2007\/12\/11\/shut-up\/\" target=\"_blank\">keep your mouth shut about it<\/a>. If you do talk, all sorts of spiritual calamity will fall upon you, they say. You can only bring problems up privately, you\u2019re told, even though you did &#8212; to no effect. No examples exist in Scripture of speaking out against injustice, you&#8217;re told. . . . what Bible are they reading?<\/p>\n<p>I realize now that those demands for us to &#8220;shut up!&#8221; are really no different than those who say &#8220;Aren&#8217;t you over that by now?&#8221; to moms of babies in Heaven. There&#8217;s a fear of big, sad feelings. There&#8217;s a fatigue in hearing the same old thing. And there&#8217;s the dread of being jinxed if you hear it too much. But those of us in the middle of hardship need to work through these big feelings. It&#8217;s a mourning process, and shutting up guarantees you&#8217;d get stuck in crippling denial or embittering anger. No, I needed this expression of sadness to move me to the Acceptance stage.<\/p>\n<p>And I believe the Body needs it too.  These sort of injustices hurt the Body of Christ both extrinsically and intrinsically. We enable the abusers by refusing to name their sin for what it is. And refusing to plainly unmask our pain before the Body, we victimize those around us who are hurting too.  Is the problem that we <em>shouldn&#8217;t<\/em> talk about it or that we don&#8217;t know <em>how<\/em>?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve since learned that the sort of ultimatum we were given is par for the course at BJU. A seminary faculty member received a similar ultimatum just before ours for speaking positively about the English Standard Version in class. I sat near some other former colleagues in church and remembered that in recent years they, too, had been told to shut up or get out. I wanted to cry. That&#8217;s a horrible way to run any business, especially with Christian brothers and sisters. And it&#8217;s pure tragedy &#8212; desperate attempts to purge unruly elements and reach perfection.<\/p>\n<p>I think about my friends who did these tragic things to me personally, and I must repeat to myself that they are stuck like I was and sometimes still am. They don&#8217;t know anything but tragedy, and even their reading of Scripture reifies that Gospel-less view. The reason they insisted I hush is because, whether consciously or not, they believe their veneer is a righteousness that must be preserved at all cost. I know that no matter how they much they insist, strive, lash out, primp, clam up, white-wash, and tantrum, that&#8217;s not where their Hope lies. I know who they are because I know Whose they are. The system is bad, but in Christ God&#8217;s people are good. I tried in this telling to peel off that veneer in a way that still leaves them and me safe and <em>together<\/em> in Christ alone.<\/p>\n<p>Although it may look very different than it does in tragedy, comedy still allows for critique. Grant always stops me here and says, &#8220;Speak that plain.&#8221; In tragedy, we kill off our evil enemies or ourselves in order to purge our own sins and reach an ordered perfection. We silence, punish, expunge &#8212; all variations on &#8220;killing&#8221; &#8212; so that we can feel secure in our propped-up purity. Of course that fails (both Kenneth Burke and Romans tell us it will!), and we start it all over again. Comedy is different. It\u2019s not a postmodern, warm-and-fuzzy, \u201ccan\u2019t-we-all-just-get-along,\u201d mindless tolerance. Neither is it a &#8220;smile-at-all-costs&#8221; feigned ignorance. No, in comedy, our enemies are not evil, but mistaken. They need to be taught rather than punished. Their faults reveal our own shortcomings.<\/p>\n<p>I wrote <a title=\"Romancing the Difference\" href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Romancing-Difference-University-Religious-Fundamentalism\/dp\/1602580030\/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1204382719&amp;sr=8-1\" target=\"_blank\">that book<\/a> trying to expand and document Kenneth Burke&#8217;s notion of comedy. I always sensed that only Christ could bring a lost and dying world to a comic mindset, but I didn&#8217;t know how to say it all. That&#8217;s the chief argument in <a title=\"Growing Grace or Killing Self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/03\/04\/ebenezer-the-chapter\/\" target=\"_blank\">the unpublished chapter<\/a>. Every one of these Ebenezers accentuated that point. Every one has tested, expanded, and nuanced that expression of comedy. When Elise died, I heard other parents of stillborns talk about how their children were &#8220;too good for this world, so God took them.&#8221; And I knew that was wrong. That was Burkean tragedy. Unwittingly, of course, those parents were describing their children&#8217;s deaths as a vicarious and purgative sacrifice for our messed-up selves and our miserable world. I kept wrestling in prayer: &#8220;God, how do I make <em>this<\/em> into a comedy. . . . giving birth to a child I&#8217;ll never see smile in this lifetime?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>When we studied how to parent our sons, I was struck again with how many of these conservative Evangelical gurus were actually arguing that spanking purges sin from our children! <a title=\"A Switch or a Cross\" href=\"http:\/\/spunkyhomeschool.blogspot.com\/2006\/04\/switch-or-cross_12.html\" target=\"_blank\">Pearl says it<\/a>, <a title=\"What Ezzo Says About Punishment. . . .\" href=\"http:\/\/www.tulipgirl.com\/mt\/archives\/000598.html\" target=\"_blank\">Ezzo says it<\/a>, and even <a title=\"Shepherdnig a Child's Heart\" href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Shepherding-Childs-Heart-Tedd-Tripp\/dp\/0966378601\/ref=pd_bbs_sr_2?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1204382811&amp;sr=8-2\" target=\"_blank\">Tedd Tripp<\/a> (who really should know better) <a title=\"Taking a tripp\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/01\/01\/taking-a-tripp\/\" target=\"_blank\">says it<\/a>. I knew that couldn&#8217;t be. That was enacting tragedy in the home. That was a Gospel-less, works-based, man-centered focus. Christ was the ultimate sacrifice and the end of sacrifices. Christ is the Hero, the Ultimate Comedian! And while Burke imagines the shadows of the idea, his agnosticism prevents him from really running with it.<\/p>\n<p>And you&#8217;ve seen <a title=\"The Drama of Grace\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/?s=The+Drama+of+Grace\" target=\"_blank\">many blog posts about that very thing<\/a>. My daughter didn&#8217;t die to cleanse me of my guilt. Christ&#8217;s grace transforms tragedy into victory. Just like God took dirt and made it a living soul. . . . just like He takes a sinner dead in trespasses and sins and makes her a joint-heir with Christ. . . . just like Christ conquered death and sin in the resurrection, God took Elise\u2019s death and transformed it into something beautiful. <a title=\"Elise's Birth Story\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2001\/07\/09\/elises-birth-story\/\" target=\"_blank\">That&#8217;s what I prayed for way back when<\/a>. That&#8217;s what this whole story is &#8212; the beautiful thing that God made in the midst of some very difficult times.<\/p>\n<p>Throughout this last year, however, I would actually laugh out loud at these Ebenezers and pray, &#8220;Okay, God. You&#8217;re really making me run with this, aren&#8217;t you? Okay. . . . how do you act like a comedian when you&#8217;re the counter-agent (a.k.a. <a title=\"Scapegoat\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/?s=scapegoat\" target=\"_blank\">scapegoat<\/a> or villain) in someone else&#8217;s tragedy?&#8221; In other words, when you&#8217;re being abused, where&#8217;s the Gospel then? It&#8217;s most certainly not in rolling over and sacrificing yourself because that&#8217;s another kind of tragedy! <a title=\"Postmodern Grace\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2006\/12\/08\/postmodern-grace\/\" target=\"_blank\">I&#8217;ve talked about it a little bit<\/a>, and there&#8217;ll be more to come. More that couldn&#8217;t have been said without saying all this first.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>That is why I had to say it all. <\/strong><\/em>Because I know that the living out the Gospel changes every interaction &#8212; even when someone is scapegoating you.<\/p>\n<p>These posts are not passive or cynical. I&#8217;m working very hard to be a comic critic in these Ebenezers. I&#8217;ve discussed only those interactions that reveal official policy and formal organizational communication. The interpersonal, private stuff is not here. I&#8217;ve tried to be true to the Holy Spirit, to myself, and to those fellow Christians who, even though they hurt me, are deeply wounded too. They don\u2019t see it. I didn\u2019t either when I was where they are. And I know what <a title=\"Operation Romans 8\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/?s=%22a+fight%22\" target=\"_blank\">the reaction will be from those in my previous life.<\/a> I&#8217;ve already been called &#8220;petty,&#8221; &#8220;silly,&#8221; and clearly &#8220;unsaved.&#8221; Interestingly enough, the comments to my <a title=\"The Ezz and I\" href=\"https:\/\/www.drslewis.org\/camille\/2008\/02\/16\/the-ezz-and-i-ebenezer-21\/\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;The Ezz and I&#8221; post<\/a> reflect the response on a small scale: misreading the texts involved, misunderstanding my point, denial, blaming, and top-down put-downs. Neither group can see themselves as separate from the system, and that&#8217;s tragic.<\/p>\n<p>These posts, too, should put to rest those accusations that we didn&#8217;t go to the people involved. We did. At every turn. Often. And it didn&#8217;t change a thing. The message from the system was still the same &#8212; &#8220;Shut up!&#8221; Where do you go to confront a bad system? So many people are hurt and even driven from God by the abuse that passes for spirituality. And those who stay are driven to silence. No more. It&#8217;s not that we should stop talking about the problem; it&#8217;s that we <em>should<\/em> talk <em>in order<\/em> to stop the problem. And we must talk in a way that foregrounds the Gospel &#8212; in truth, in love, and with a clear understanding that we are dependent on Christ\u2019s completed redemptive work.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m still wrestling with how to describe the Gospel as Comedy within a rhetorical idiom. I&#8217;m not saying that I always did it right, and I am sorry for the tragedy I participated in. I was wrong . . . <em>often<\/em>. But by telling this story completely and publicly, by reflecting the feelings that tragedy induces, by remembering that even the agent of tragedy is himself mired and mistaken, by seeing myself in other&#8217;s tragic actions, by critiquing with hope for change, I believe that imagining a rhetorical theory of the Gospel is possible.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a class=\"tt-flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/12037699@N03\/2305988895\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/farm3.static.flickr.com\/2112\/2305988895_d0b5151044.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"EdwinLongEsther\" width=\"384\" height=\"484\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>So <a title=\"Purim\" href=\"http:\/\/www.jewfaq.org\/holiday9.htm\" target=\"_blank\">Purim<\/a> &#8212; that celebration that remembers God&#8217;s working through Esther to save her people caught in a corrupt, abusive system &#8212; has just begun here on March 20, 2008 at 7:41 pm. Esther is a favorite among rhetoricians (believing and otherwise), and our best reminder that God acts in often unobtrusive ways &#8212; but He does always act! We&#8217;ll be making <a title=\"Hamantash\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Hamantash\" target=\"_blank\">Hamantaschen<\/a> to celebrate today and maybe you&#8217;ll join us. And while we&#8217;re folding those pastries to look like Haman&#8217;s hat, I&#8217;ll be telling my sons (and myself) about Esther&#8217;s brave and outspoken confidence in God. What would happen if we all acted like Esther &#8212; resisting tragedy and living out the Gospel? How would God use our words that were true, full-of-grace, <em>bold<\/em>, and comic? I&#8217;m eager to see how God can transform our aching, forced, stuck, trembling, Spirit-ignoring silences into something that robustly and truthfully praises Him. Stay tuned. . . .<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"tt-flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/12037699@N03\/2305988895\/\"><\/a><a class=\"tt-flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/12037699@N03\/2305988895\/\"><\/a><a class=\"tt-flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/12037699@N03\/2305988895\/\"><\/a><a class=\"tt-flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/12037699@N03\/2305988895\/\"><\/a><a class=\"tt-flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/12037699@N03\/2305988895\/\"><\/a><a class=\"tt-flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/12037699@N03\/2305988895\/\"><\/a><a class=\"tt-flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/12037699@N03\/2305988895\/\"><\/a><a class=\"tt-flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/12037699@N03\/2305988895\/\"><\/a><a class=\"tt-flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/12037699@N03\/2305988895\/\"><\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"lyrics\">Glory to God, whose sovereign grace<br \/>\nHath animated senseless stones;<br \/>\nCalled us to stand before His face,<br \/>\nAnd raised us into Abraham\u2019s sons!<\/p>\n<p>The people that in darkness lay,<br \/>\nIn sin and error\u2019s deadly shade,<br \/>\nHave seen a glorious gospel day,<br \/>\nIn Jesus\u2019 lovely face displayed.<\/p>\n<p>Thou only, Lord, the work hast done,<br \/>\nAnd bared Thine arm in all our sight;<br \/>\nHast made the reprobates Thine own,<br \/>\nAnd claimed the outcasts as Thy right.<\/p>\n<p>Thy single arm, almighty Lord,<br \/>\nTo us the great salvation brought,<br \/>\nThy Word, Thy all-creating Word,<br \/>\nThat spake at first the world from naught.<\/p>\n<p>For this the saints lift up their voice,<br \/>\nAnd ceaseless praise to Thee is giv\u2019n;<br \/>\nFor this the hosts above rejoice,<br \/>\nWe raise the happiness of Heav\u2019n.<\/p>\n<p>For this, no longer sons of night,<br \/>\nTo Thee our thankful hearts we give;<br \/>\nTo Thee, who called us into light,<br \/>\nTo Thee we die, to Thee we live.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Suffice that for the season past<br \/>\nHell\u2019s horrid language filled our tongues,<br \/>\nWe all Thy words behind us cast,<br \/>\nAnd lewdly sang the drunkard\u2019s songs.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>But, O the power of grace divine!<br \/>\nIn hymns we now our voices raise,<br \/>\nLoudly in strange hosannas join,<br \/>\nAnd blasphemies are turned to praise!<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In Christ alone my hope is found; 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